[ Claire honestly did not think that this evening, a fancy poncy ball of some sort to welcome new citizens, would lead to such a deep conversation. For a moment, she thinks on his question, her hand gently squeezing his where he holds it, the two of them still swaying to the music. ]

I don't think you can live your life without being scared. I think making the right decisions is scary. And it should be. It's harder to be good than it is to be bad.

[ Looking up, she puts on a soft smile, wishing it was something that was easy to change. ]

I guess you have to start small. Let someone in. Allow yourself to care, and worry, and feel responsible of some things. A part of their happiness. I think it's a natural thing, one that happens over time, slowly. You've just got to accept it.