You were backed into a corner, Baby. Is it any different than what I did? You said yourself both men desired to kill you. One is allowed to raise his hand in defense of his person, at least they are in Westeros.

( Sansa moves to sit up, wanting to comfort him and unable to do so from her current position. She moves to sit beside him and cups his cheek with her hand. )

You were forced to make terrible choices. This doesn't make you a bad person. I refuse to believe that.