It is arranged, yes, which is what is more natural for me. ( Sansa gives him a smile, a little awkward herself. She isn't sure if it's from the turn of the conversation or the fact that she's trying to balance on wheels but she stumbles a little and throws her hands out to steady herself. )

I am a widow now and the past doesn't matter. This was an attempt to try and do things the way people in Cadelle do them and not the way I do them at home. I sort of like the idea of being able to know someone before deciding to be with them instead of being married for a political alliance. It's nice.